Introducing: AN EMOTIONAL ENEMA

I cannot believe that I have not written on this blog since 2010!!!  Gessh!  But I have good reason.  I've been busy writing the new best seller An Emotional Enema... Let That Sh*t Go!

Although I have completed the writing phase of this project, I am looking to get started with all the different phases on publishing and releasing this work.  I AM EXCITED!

An Emotional Enema is a book about learning to ..."...let shit go!"  It is autobiographical with self-help concepts and practices mixed in.  I also talk about God, The Universe, and I use scripture because, as I explain in the book, "...what is inside will come out..."  

This book is a wonderful read, if I must say so myself.  I am hoping that it does indeed reach best seller status because I really want to get it into the hands of as many people has possible.  We all know someone who has held on just a few years too long to some past and passed hurt.  This book is for them.  

It is my hope that you will log in and stay tuned to all the places this book takes us as we try to give the world, An Emotional Enema!

Love HURTS!

Today was a very interesting day for me... the first full day of my suspension from work and all. But I will not be talking about that particular frustration. No. It was a conversation with a "friend" that leads to the title of this blog.

My friend stated that she was considering leaving her husband because she was tired of being cheated on. She went on with details and I listened, but when she stated "....this hurts and love is not supposed to hurt..." my soul was stirred. It was as if Jesus was standing before me saying... "You wanna bet!? Do you think those nails felt good? Not!"

I know. I know. You are either thinking about 1 Cor. 13 or the fact that those that were hurting Jesus did not love Him. And yes, those are two very valid points. However, the perspective from which I speak is that of the one in pain; and upon further reflection, I believe 1 Cor. 13 is written from the same point of view.

Society has conditioned us to believe that somehow when we love someone and that person says they love us.... somehow..... everything will be perfect. Yet, upon looking at 1 Cor. 13:4, when the attributes are love are being laid out, the first attribute states... "Charity (love) suffereth long (KJV)" (insert and italics added by me).

So..... it's a wrap. LOVE HURTS! (but it's not stupid.... but that's another night.) I would continue on but....... my husband is reaching for me in bed. So..... we will pick this up another day.

Much.........love,
Ms. Niki